Why Colossians was written:
The church at Colossae was under attack from false teachers who were insulting the deity of Jesus; they were teaching that He was not actually God. Paul addressed these issues head-on.

Today we discuss our lives as children and parents. We need each other but most importantly, we need the Lord.

Children (3:20)

What does it mean to “honor?"

Honor: to regard with great respect or high esteem.
It is also defined as something that is regarded as a rare opportunity, and bringing pride and pleasure, a privilege.

1. Honoring our parents teaches us how to honor our Heavenly Father.
2. Teaches us respect for authority outside the home. At school, in public places, at church.
3. Others are watching how we honor our parents and other authority over us.

Fathers (3:21)
“Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged.”

1. Be consistent, steadfast, predictable.
a. Children get frustrated and confused when you are angry, mean, and misunderstanding.
b. When they don’t know what to expect, they are left confused and discouraged.
c. Rules without love lead to rebellion.
2. Moms you are the mood setter in the home. You’ve heard it said. If mom’s not happy no one is happy. The children will often mirror your energy.

How do I apply this?

Children can honor their parents in a number of ways:
o Tell them; a simple “I love you” can go a long way
o Do your chores and even extra. It doesn’t take long to do what we are supposed to do.
o Listen to them. Not just what you are told to do but their stories and interests.
o Be truthful and don’t talk back. There is usually a reason why you are being told something or asked to do or not do something.

Parents
o Children need your input and direction.
o Attend church with them.
§ Giving your life to Christ is the single best thing you can do to help in raising your children.
o Ask about their day and listen to them, not just hear them, truly listen.
o Compliment them. Focus on when they do it right not just giving them direction when they do it wrong.
o Serve others with them. Be the role model they need.

Final thoughts:

Children are not just little versions of us. They are still learning, growing, and developing. They need direction, they need you.

1. We cannot change the past, but we can change the future.
2. We cannot change where we have been, but we can change where we are going.
3. The paths walked are behind us; but starting today you can control the direction you go.

Kids, choose to honor your mom and dad.
Parents, choose to take the paths God has for you and bring your children up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
Power Text: (Ephesians 6:4)